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How to Deal with Negative People

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1. Don’t engage in the negativity.

2. Hang out in groups.

3. Objectify the comments made. That is, rather than take his/her words personally, recognize that he/she is just offering a point of view.

4. Go with lighter topics to brighten the mood.

5. Limit the amount of time you spend with them.

6. Try to be upbeat around them and show them the positive side of life.

7. If they make you feel bad about yourself, drop them from your life.

Source: http://zenhabits.net/negative/ abridged

this is so true, and on so many accounts I have been a negative person, I should support people and their way of life instead of bringing them down and being a horrible person to them. They don’t deserve that and yes, i’m a jealous person, but it should be envious, not jealousy. I’ve been doing well these days being nice, and it’s really done a lot for me.. thank god.. I’ve gotton rid of a lot of negative influence to me, and i’ve learnt to open up to my best friend and tell her everything,. she really is the only person I can speak about everything too.. Love you bestie.

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